Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

Five Practices To Stay Away From When Dating.

1. Competitive activity. A Date is not the place to judge yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with your prospect’s.

2. Skill. Wanting to prove your skill at being a good partner is too much work and that will manifest.

3. Chance. Remember you chose to be on this date. Ultimately, chance isn’t a factor.

4. Endurance. A date is not a contest to see who will outlast the other in being entertaining or intelligent.

5. Rules. Stone-set rules are a choking point for new possibilities.

Five Practices to Engage in When Dating.

1. Play. Though these may sound basic, I’ll be willing to wager most of you do not approach dating as a playful exercise. Can you recall a time when you were the innocent child making castles in the sand? How sublime was that? Not a care in the world, no one to prove yourself to. Simply muddy fun! Find ways to approach your date with having fun as a first priority. Find fun even if your date is a serious type. Make the game of the night to find fun. You don’t need to see him or her in the future if they cannot be easy-going and have fun. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and is not difficult to grasp.

2. Laugh. A close relative to Play, laughing is the easiest infectious way to spread joy. Before going on any date, most importantly, a first date, tell yourself that you will consciously search for a reason to feel good and laugh. Smile a lot. At the waitress or waiter, at the host. Or put on a grin for no reason.

3. Listen. This is such an important way to build a relationship with your date. Meaningful listening means when you turn off the monologue in your head and really listen to what the person on the other side of the table is saying. Granted, the critic in your head may be wanting to chime in for many reasons. You don’t like the manner in which he eats his soup. She constantly plays with her hair. Things like that can be distractions. Just notice yourself being distracted and pull yourself back into the present. Again, you don’t have to see them again if you don’t desire to. This is an important practice, however, and it’s a building block for intimacy. You’ll want to adopt this practice in your long-term relationship, so why not get your practice in now. Just so you know, you don’t need to listen just in the dating world. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your level of creative potential!

4. Eye Contact. Do not simply make eye contact and bob your head. Practice deep listening whilst making eye contact. This is a wonderful communication of your own generosity. And I can promise you, that generosity will return to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move away from outdated patterns much more quickly.

5. Communicate. When it’s your time to speak, be clear and be heard. Since you’ve given your time to your date, desire the same. You have not interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption occurs, request the same manners. You can be polite and nice about this without causing it to be a problem. Simply kindly ask for what you’d like. Feeling confident in this takes a lot of pressure off your date. You leave them firmly knowing what you prefer.

It doesn’t matter if you’re 25 or 75 in the dating scene - just like life - if approached as a fun game, one in which there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for everyone.

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

What is Dating Intentionally? I’d imagine [you’d love to know how it works?

Aren’t you tired of failing one date after another to find Mr. or Ms. Right? Does the thought of a Dating Game send you running for cover?

You are probably not engaging in the dating game just for the fun of it. In other words, it is not a game or something to do for fun for you. Most likely you’re striving for a purposeful contact with a individual who shares your interests. A person who can share good conversation, fun activities and sync up on a number of similar values.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve recently cut off a meaningful relationship or are simply bored of browsing the online dating environments, the time has come for you to try Intentional Dating. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Having an independent listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much faster.

Imagine if I said I could explain to you how to go about clarifying your desires and intentions before you wade into the muck and mire of the dating scene?

What you think manifests as your life - so would you not desire to know what’s really behind these nagging thoughts that keep you unsuccessfully doing dates like a proverbial ‘revolving door,’ or keep you sitting in front of the TV on Saturday nights, instead of sending yourself out there shaking it up with reality? Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationships Attraction, and is not hard to understand.

Let’s try getting to the meat of the problem, manifesting a fun game concerning dating and then acquire the outcome you’re after — a really fun and loving relationship?

Does any of this sound good to you? I bet it does!

First, let’s define the word GAME…

1. Game - An amusement or pastime.

2. Game - A competitive organized action using skills, chance, or strength involving two or more persons who engage in the game following a code of rules, either for their own amusement or for that of spectators.

The second definition generalizes the way most of us feel about dating. However, if it is not fun, something is out of alignment. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive energy!

For most people, the second definition has elements that strip the FUN directly out of the pursuit of dating. These elements are:

Competitive activity, Skill, Chance, Endurance and Rules. These are absolute fun-suckers!

Strangely enough, these are the things to stay away from when dating.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …

Every one of us has been trained in logic, to use our rationale, to confirm the facts, collect sound data, assimilate all of it and then speak the truth. But do your senses verify what is truth or just what you are observing? Even in modern science it has been proven that the mere process of observation skews the possibility of the outcome of the experiment. This is due to the influence of people’s intentions. What!? We influence what we are experiencing? That’s right, and the process is based on our expectations and intentions. It’s the Law of Attraction at work!

We truly have the ability to change the outcome of our life experience by what we think, what we think is going to happen, and our feelings. When what we are thinking and the events we think are going to happen match up, it is what’s called alignment, and manifestation follows. Using the Law of Attraction is a hugely powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and is easy to understand.

There is so an increasingly large amount of leverage in energy aligning. It is the way of least resistance, or the way of ultimate allowance. Now, your life becomes in harmony with your desires and expectations instead of from forcing an outcome.

Our bodies perform trillions of biological and chemical functions every day, every time lacking effort. The Universe splendidly orchestrates the orbits of planets, stars, and solar systems with more precision than an atomic clock.

This all occurs without effort. There is a greater organizing force going on that our mere brain can actually conceive. We are intimately a part of the energy that manages everything. In fact, it is who we are at our essence.

Your life needn’t be filled with stressful activity, force, and endless striving. Success, fulfilment, and simplicity is our inherited birthright. As a part of this wonderful Universe, we own such properties. You can understand what it feels like to be in alignment with Universal Law when you take several moments of silence, turn within and simply breathe. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

All it takes is a moment to tap in to the energy that choreographs the Universe and remember that you are an integral part of all that is. You are known, you are powerful, and you are meaningful.

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …

Valentine’s Day brings out the romantic in many of us. At the very least, it is a day that we would LIKE to have the romantic drawn out of its shell. In a relationship or spending this Valentine’s Day alone, when Valentine’s Day comes to mind don’t you remember the absurd little cupid cards we would send around to fellow children in school or the cards we made in class for our Moms?

Other memories and reminders we have concerning Valentine’s Day and what it actually means to be a part of a relationship or not can have us feeling feel good or bad, depending on past relationships. Unfortunately, most of how we feel, regardless of what the status of our relationship is is placed in our minds by the conditioned thinking that is ‘out there’ in the mass consciousness.

Don’t listen to what they are saying. Don’t pay attention if it doesn’t lift your spirits and make you feel better about yourself. You’re perfect exactly the way you are.

If you desire a relationship and do not have one, wonderful! You can get clear on exactly what you want. Now you’re in a perfect place to start to attract a relationship from a renewed starting point.

If you are in a relationship and are not too happy with the way it’s going, fine. Now you can better gain clarity on what you DO want in your perfect relationship, based on the differences you’re currently dealing with. Get a free Relationship Coaching session today, no strings attached!

Valentine’s Day, whether you are coupled or not, can be a day where you experience the love that’s coming to you! But, you must be proactive about this. You are the one who gets to say and has the creative control of what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!

Here’s where many of us sleep on the job. We are sitting on our thumbs while we wait for the circumstances to mold differently for us. We are waiting for him to take charge. We’re hoping that if we give him enough hints, he will take one and swing into action. WRONG. Do not do this. That is letting yourself be at the receiving end, instead of the causal end of your life. You get say. All you have to do is make a gentle request, to your existing beloved or to the Universe. Then, you’ll have to step out of the way. You must forget the how, the what, and the when of what you want. Attaching yourself to the outcome is basically resisting what you want. You cannot say “Come in” with your hand keeping the door shut and expect it to enter. Perhaps that’s easier said than done. But that is why life coaching exists for those of us who need to gain clear on why we’re failing to get what we want and then assist us in aligning with what we do so it may be delivered. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!

It comes down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not necessarily easy. Ask yourself “What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?” “What could be possible for me in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship”? Think Big! Now begin to live in the energy of how your life would appear and feel like if you were enjoying that currently. Use your imagination - remember what you did so naturally when you were a child?

I’m always deeply moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I’ve created by way of creating my amazing husband. A little over 4 years ago, I was one of those people who had more unsettling closings to relationships than I’d want to admit. Then, I really buckled down with Law of Attraction. I did the play/work. I dropped my walls to love, got aligned and rapidly attracted the love of my dreams.

This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserved it. By the way, a relationship is continuous co-creation, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …

Do you own some dry erase markers? You know, the type of markers that you can wipe away with a wet cloth?

If not, get a pack next time you go shopping. They are wickedly exciting to play with. You can write on all types of things. Scrawl on any mirror in your house describing how much you enjoy your life since you’ve manifested a wonderful life.

Put down your greatest affirmations that put you in the best place on the mirror or even on your windows. Put statements describing how much you appreciate yourself. Try this phrase… “I am overwhelmingly happy and so grateful now that … ” and simply fill in the blank “…Now that my husband is happy with his wonderful new job,” “…Now that we have so much money to spare and share,” “…Now that I’m in love with what I do for a living,” “…Now that my confidence and self-worth is greater than it has ever been,” “…Now that my healthy and trim self feels and looks great!” Start attracting the love relationship you have always desired today with the help of a Relationship Coach.

Write about how much your friends and family cherish you. Write about the amount you appreciate your family and friends, your career, your car, your home. You could even write about things in your life don’t enjoy. Just frame them as if they are actually wonderful, desirable and perfect right now. Make statements about your life “as if” it is ALREADY your reality! A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you enormously in the area of intentional creation and shedding yourself of limiting thoughts.

If you’re in a relationship, write about every perfect thing you love about your mate. Write about the things you would love to love about your love AS IF they have already arrived. Get great Relationship Coaching today to speed up your results with the Law of Attraction.

If you are not in a relationship, but want one, write love letters to your beloved on the mirror imagining that he or she IS seeing them. Life is supposed to be fun.

Keep the fun and games going, they’re really high vibe raisers!

Happy Creating.

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach Shares on Marriage Relationships…

Do you know what you want in your perfect relationship? That question may apply to a relationship you may already currently be in. If that is not the case, there is no time like the present to work on your set of properties and attributes you want in your mate. To help guide you, take a look in the following aspects of your life.

View these aspects of life and ask yourself how you want your ideal marriage to be presented in these areas: job, money, level of romanticism, their health and body status, family/friends, personal and spiritual growth, creative ability, importance of travelling, and how they feel about the environment and their sense of community.

We all have ties to the previous things. But to what level of relationship do you desire this person to have in these categories? This should give you an unmuddled beginning and logical ending point when making your list. Coping with marriage separation? Learn to attract the love of your dreams and lasting Marriage Relationships with the Law of Attraction.

These are simply guidelines to help you get clear on what you really desire in your perfect marriage. “Can I truly acqiure everything that I want?” Of course! As a matter of fact, the Universe gave me everything I wanted and so much more. So, make sure you take the time to become clear about that which you want. Next, to get clarity on whether your energy is clear, ask yourself the question, “Why do I want it?” This question will tell you if you’re vibrating from a lacking perspective or a vibrational match to what you want. Long-lasting loving Marriage Relationships are not a thing of the past. Learn how to attract your ideal love today!

For example, the answer to the question “why do I desire this?” could be answered… “I want a loving, committed marriage because I am tired of the dating scene.” That answer shows what you DO desire and what you DON’T want. You’ve negated what you really desire in the following clause. You desire to answer simply from the point of view of that which you DO want. Simply put, the Universe registers and mirrors your emotions and beliefs. You will simply be receiving more of the same with that type of answer. Get clear about that which you want and make a bold declaration.

Enjoy the journey! Happy Creating.

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach, Shares on Marriage Relationships…

What’s your general mood at the beginning of a new day? What about by the end of a day? Are you aware that you can purposefully place your tone and have that influence the process you experience every day?

I will admit it takes a little practice, but it sure is worth it. If you prepare your day to function smoothly, or you imagine your boss being a pain, in both cases, you are right! Your vibration will always match what you expect. If you desire to attract Law of Attraction Marriage Relationships, contact a Life Coach for expert coaching today!

Try to create your day by setting aside 60 seconds (or longer) to purposefully imagine what you desire to experience. That is how you become a meaningful attractor instead of creating by default. In fact, old autopilot functioning has your expectations essentially set in stone. The default function has you behaving the same old way, getting continuously old results. They are so well-defined, you do not actually realize them. Actually, when you finally do realize this is when you desire to create something that is slightly out of reach. When this occurs, usually you feel some negative emotion because you cannot figure out how you’ll achieve that desire. Many give up at that point rather than feel an unpleasant let-down. Attracting a perfect Marriage Relationship with the Law of Attraction is possible, even after a difficult divorce (trust me, I’m exhibit A).

But not you. You are practicing being a deliberate creator.

Another great energy practice: the End of Day Review. To do this, you look for what worked. Congratulate yourself. And where something didn’t function so well, make a do-over. Think back to your childhood and you missed the shot and called “Do-Over.” Simply re-run the event and re-create it with a preferred ending! This hones and sharpens your vibration in you so that when something like that happens again you will have a better range of outcomes to pick from, rather than an outmoded reflexive reaction.

Try it, I think will like it. Happy Creating.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …

There are guidelines to manifesting your wants. You don’t need to re-invent the wheel.

Consider that the Universe is a gigantic intention-fulfilling machine. The Universe was created to work with you, never against you. Because it manifests your intentions every time you begin to think then why am I receiving what I am receiving and not the romance of my lifetime or the life I have always wanted? My question to you is: what are your deeply bound beliefs about what is possible for you? Are you totally loveable and deserving? Do you think you’re worthy of wealth and vitality? Are there doubtful thoughts about your capability of maintaining success? A Relationship Coach can help you achieve your goals, get help today!

You should want to get really clear what is in your energy. Your words can occasionally hide your true feelings and vibrations. Once you get clear about what is blocking the way, what those resisting thoughts, counter intentions or habitual patterns of thinking are, then you have the ability to ask and be in harmony with your desire, then it must manifest. Get Life Coaching Courses to speed up your results with the Law of Attraction.

All you need to do is ask. State your desire, that is, you have to ask excluding any resistant thoughts that get in the way to reverse the thing it is you are asking for. For example: I desire a relationship with a guy who is amazing, funny, adorable, and intelligent. You feel how wonderful it will be to be loved by a person like that, then, if there is no other negative energy in your path, your romance will soon be yours.

Jesus taught us: Ask as if you have already received and it shall be delivered.

Ask - Believe - Receive. The believing part is the part where you align your vibrational energy, and that is where many people need assistance tweaking their energy level. But with practice it certainly gets simpler. And you do not need to go it alone — Get some support from a Law of Attraction Life Coach.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

You’ve ended a mediocre relationship that does not fit you anymore. It was difficult to stop the situation, because it was not horrible, although your heart wished to be completely fulfilled in love. Currently you have found yourself being lonely and have a hard time closing the door fully on that old relationship. Does this ring true for yourself?

You begin to doubt yourself, asking yourself if it was truly as bad as you thought.

In order to let anything new into our lives, we need to let go of what is already there. It’sdifficult to have a clean start and attract the one who lights up your life if you’re emotionally holding the area of the past. You don’t have to necessarily completely expunge a friendship. However, if you have found that you are keeping some unresolved issues from the past, then it’s time to clear that energy out. You have to go the whole way. You can get the Relationship Advice you need today.

Completion is a action of taking 100% responsibility for how you feel, expressing all that you feel concerning the situation (without putting blame on anyone) with the intention of saying everything that must be said as though you are emptying a container. When you have expressed it all, that container is clean and cleared out.

It also assists you to know what you want from the clearing conversation. That is, you want to be complete, you desire to be independent from your previous life so you can attract from a new vantage point.

If you find yourself holding on to hurt from the past, maybe you think that he truly should be held accountable for his actions. Best of luck attempting to break free from that. The more your attention is on something you don’t want, the longer you will create it to you.

Let the energy you are allowing to be siphoned off from your power. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and after a while, it will deplete your positive energy, if it has not already. Also, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all your power present in this moment. When you do not have your mind in the moment it makes it more difficult to be a powerful, meaningful creator. Life Coaching and Relationship Advice can help you along the way.

Take your full presence back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that bog you down, muss up your energy level and inhibit you from accelerating the relationship and love you want and should have.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

A common problem for clients of mine is their belief that you have to drop 50 pounds and/or be financially secure prior to being able to attract lasting love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.

It is wonderful to want to appear your best, be your best, have high self-esteem and feel good concerning your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel secure, confident, and attractive.

There are a MASSIVE amount of industries that prey on peoples’ poor sense of self-image. At some time or another, we’ve all succumbed to paying for that new exercise machine that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and have a beautiful self. Supplements, special diets or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, all of it! And these things are directly aimed at one simple idea – that we are not actually OK the way we already are.

We’re so accustomed to this type of thought pattern that we hardly even question it. It is not surprising that we subscribe to that pattern of thinking. After all, when we are born, on the first day of our life, we’re admired and perfect – mostly. Then soon we are compared to how our older sibling did things, at what age they developed this ability, sitting up, crawling, language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are similar or different to the other one or that. “Oh, she appears similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You understand the pattern.

Begin by analyzing your recurring thoughts and feelings concerning your body. Most people do not actually understand that they have stuck limiting vibrations or emotions from these early experiences. Negative emotion, whether pervading or subtle, does not feel good and many of us just teach ourselves to bury it, deal with it, or drive it further into the unconscious. These intense emotional experiences tend to continue to be subjugated. We have all heard the term “emotional baggage.” We walk through life with old unresolved, paining, hard to deal with feelings continuing to be held somewhere inside of us. Those emotions transmit to the Universe to reflect back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.

Begin to change your connection with your body by making lists of things you appreciate about you. What really works about your body? What can you love concerning your appearance? Think of 10 things every day that you really love about your body. Do you like your hands? Are you thankful for working fingers? Make lists of the positive aspects about you and watch your energy and vibrational level of attraction start to soar. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.

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